All very reassuring -- thanks for posting. I'm getting ready to start querying an urban fantasy mystery in which the hero is bisexual, and my big worry was that the gay presses would be antsy that he has a brief relationship with a woman early on while the rest would be bothered by his relationship with a younger man later in the story. But I think if I focus on the mystery and the worldbuilding in the background, then the relationships (both of which tie into the puzzle) will just be a 'by the way...' in the query.

And if nothing else I love the world I've created, I'm still writing more mysteries in it, and my friends seem to like what they've seen too.